I Am More: Donna

Donna doesn’t know this, but when I was first getting to know her, I was alarmed by her positivity. Not because it was a bad thing, but because I was so used to trading complaints with people, that to have a conversation with a person who saw only the good in life was challenging. No matter what the weather, no matter where we happened to meet, she would say, “Isn’t it a gorgeous day? Can you believe we live here?” I would look up skeptically at the gray sky but nod. From then on, if I saw Donna walking down the street towards me I frantically try to find something positive to say. That’s why it came as a surprise to find out about her personal struggles:

Donna, 2017. Colored pencil on paper, 16×20 inches

I am more than my depression and anxiety. My loves are my family, especially my grandchildren. They are such a gift and remind me of the good in my life. I also love my extended family of friends. Sometimes friends understand you more than your family and can be much easier to confide in. I love that my friends can laugh with me.

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The ocean is my happy place. The smell and the healing benefits take my mood from anxious or depressed to grateful. As a kid, going to Nantasket Beach every summer gave me freedom from my anxiety and depression. The cottage belonged to my Nonnie, and she always loved me no matter what. Having the ocean in my backyard was awesome, and being able to walk everywhere barefoot was freeing.

I adore animals. Pets and animals love you unconditionally. When I had a rabbit named Bailey, I could always talk to him and I felt that he always knew how I felt. If I could have pets I would have them all.


I’m one of those people who love facts.  Sometimes my kids tell me my head is full of useless information.

I try to be happy in the moment and not worry so much about what is coming in the future. I try to be grateful for everything. My positive attitude was instilled in me by my Nonnie. Knowing that things could be so much worse has helped.  This doesn’t mean the depression can’t show its ugly face even during great times. Family situations sometimes cause the depression symptoms to come back and that is due to my upbringing. The surprising thing about anxiety and depression is that the attacks don’t happen during a bad experience, they usually come a couple of days later. As an adult, I am much better handling unpleasant experiences with the help of therapy.

The joy of my family, and, of course living here in Gloucester keeps me going.


To see Donna’s photography of Cape Ann visit her blog and follow her posts at Good Morning Gloucester.

If you would like to share how you are more than your depression, grief, addiction, anxiety, PTSD, eating disorder or OCD please email me at amykerrdraws@gmail.com for a Writing Guide.

11 thoughts on “I Am More: Donna

  1. Thank you Donna for sharing your story! I’m always happy to hear how other people are dealing or have dealt with these challenges to their psyche and peace of mind. I’m glad you find refuge with your grandkids, animals, and the ocean and that as an adult you are dealing with your low points much better. Brava!

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  2. Incredible! I would never have guessed because I too find Donna to be one of the most positive and uplifting people I know. Love running into her and seeing her taking pictures here there and everywhere as I go about my daily duties. What a great article and what a wonderful picture of an amazing woman!


  3. Donna,

    What a gift and what an impression you have left with so many! The talks from across the big pond are always upbeat and special 🙂 Dave & Kim 🙂


  4. Love the drawing Amy, her smile is contagious and whenever I am with her I can’t help thinking how lucky I am to have met her and call her my friend. Thank you Amy for your wonderful drawings and stories, wonderful!


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