Soon after the Pulse nightclub shooting a prayer vigil was organized in front of Gloucester City Hall. Iain and I found ourselves there with a shell-shocked group of Gloucester residents under the new Pride flag waving at dusk. Mayor Sefatia Romeo Theken came to the microphone and gave a rousing speech about inclusion and acceptance and love. How many public servants speak about love? Not many, I would guess, but as I’ve gotten to know her through this project, it seems to be the theme of this mayor’s life:
I am more than my grief, pain. I am the mother of a recovering addict and the wife of a spouse who committed suicide.
My dream is to be able to finally sleep without the worry that I will get a phone call during the night, my child is gone.
I love people. Love, love laughing.
I am a good speaker and advocate for people’s rights.
I am grateful that through all my hardships, I never got depressed.
Love the beauty in Gloucester, the ocean. Love my children, but adore my grandchildren. They are my life.
I can handle most unpleasantries, but I never want to experience losing a child or grandchild, it’s my biggest fear.
As a child, I loved playing with the neighborhood kids. Loved riding my bike and swimming with all the churchyard kids.
I find it fascinating, people’s behavior, what makes people do what they do. I am learning every day about people’s personalities. Just when you think you know someone, boom they change.
Seeing people getting along brings me joy, it’s a sense of peace.
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